Friday, 25 February 2011

Steps to becoming a successful person

Decide what it is you want in life, take positive actions toward achieving it by setting goals, and monitor the results you are getting  is the best way to become a successful person.
Decide what you want your life to be. You need to know where you want to live, where you will work and in what field you will make your career

Being successful in anything requires that you must aim at something desirable and then measure your progress towards achieving such a goal. Sometimes we miss the target but we get up and try again. If it is something you are passionate about you will continue striving until you reach your goal.
Being a successful person really means looking inside yourself and deciding that you are somebody and that you have something to offer. When you are trying to determine whether you are a successful person or not you must understand that the first person who must believe you are a success is yourself.
In an attempt to determine whether I had become a successful person, used the following steps:
1. First I looked at my life and decided that I am a good person and that I have
a lot to offer to other people

2.Secondly I decided the opinion that mattered the most to me was my own. It does not matter much what others think about you but it matters most what most what you think about yourself. I think that I'm a great person 
3. Third I seek to treat other people the way I want to be treated without
expecting them to treat me any different than anyone else.

4. Fourth I decided to love who I am
5. Fifth I decided to always give my best and to be the best in all I do
6. Sixth I decided that everything others said about me is simply their opinion
7. Seventh I decided to live my life one day at a time and to do as much good
and positive in that day that is humanly possible

8. Eight I learn what I can learn, I seek counsel on those things I don't know,
and I strive to know the difference between what I know and don't know 
9. Ninth I don't lie to myself
10. Tenth I evaluate all information I recieve against my mission, goals, and values.
These ten steps have helped me build my self esteem, improve my relationships, and build my knowledge.