Working Stress

     After Graduation your college/ university, Congratulation that you get your Graduation Hat, & Congratulation, to you again, cause you have train yourself to be independent,  but as for your info your life still haven over yet, you have the next step is your real life of becoming an adult, NOT a children anymore, NO need teacher to teach you, NO need parent to guide, NOW, you yourself, sacrifice with your family cause they, have sacrificial you for almost 20 years.


During, your work, you will face more stress , or more challenging; then college/university; 


What You may face Stress in Workplace:-

• Facing With your Boss/Manager
• Facing With your Colleague
• Facing with your work

Facing with your Manager and Boss:-

What will make your stress with Boss/Manager 

• Mostly all your project or your task need to approve by Manager, before you can start to perform your task or prepare to do your product/ your creation, because sometime if they change their mind you need to redo/ recreate all your product or your task, cause need the approved by the Boss/ Manager, and to show your product/ your task to your Manager/ Boss.
• And some of you, need to face, your manager or boss , especially, once they unhappy of your product or task,Oh...O....you will meet lion face...
• This may make you not confident and perform your task/ product and plus your STRESS, on how to proceed your product/ task. 

Facing Stress with your colleague

What Makes you Stress with your Colleague?

• No cooperation / teamwork with you until you fail to do your product/ your task and also meet with manager. 

Facing Stress with your work?

• Facing with boss/manager
• Facing with no teamwork with your colleague.
• Facing to much work/product to be solve.   

As for my conclusion with Working Stress is:-

• For the work is hard, do it first, then the rest that is not urgent do it later.
• If no cooperation with the colleague..maybe you can find your manager to solve it together don't be afraid to ask, and so ask for your job/your product if the worker's/colleague not cooperate with you.  

Or

• Find some information from the internet to search, that suit for your product/ your work. 
• Manage your time, don't screw up your job/ your product.
• Not work hard but work smart.
• Arrange your time to have a rest or a vacation or relax at the beach and have time with friend/your family.
• If success ,do, until you leave your company, not because of "Good", "Excellent", "Impressive" or good comment from manager keep it up...
• If fail, don't give up, do it again, cause you have the chances, with the good comment from your manager.
• Keep praying daily....for success on your work or any difficulties .

May God Bless You!...

   

Independent Period & Stress

Yesterday, we talk about teenage stress and today well i will include some teenage , but more to independent Period + Stress.

What do you know about independent Period?

. Means you have finish your final year and towards high school level/university and college and even starting small business (for the people who fail the exam) 

. Another word is the process to become adult.

. It also known as our practical of becoming adult .

. Do it by yourself/ work by yourself.

To all teenage, congratulation you have past trough your secondary year ....and congratulation for some you get Flying A's in your exam .And for some fail or not getting flying color in your exam don't give up cause you can also start you small business.

Have you prepare you big challenge and stress in your New Environment/New Place...for futher studies or working?

Well here is some challenge and stress for you:-

For High School Level (Form 6/O Level)

- Sitting for STPM is the big challenge for you cause if you miss the goal, it will make you   difficult to go for further study, and some people say waste your money to study STPM, 

For those who sit for this high school education level, be prepare and treat this like a game but, be serious cause you are dealing with huge matter, that hide behind this education, there were two type of things may happen on you, One is trap and also winning. 
During the normal exam if you fail you still can stand up, don't give up hope and not until the last minute you before your Big Exam, during that time stress occur on us not even an exam, even we do homework because of difficulties on answering the question & also project  , sometime answering, think will be easy but.......not as easy as we think off and also exam.....sometimes difficult question manage to get it right but, sometimes an easy & simple question never get's the answer right, and this may make us give up sometimes..they might be stop and won't be continue their study.


COLLEGE UNIVERSITIES STRESS

This is one of the major stress in High School,  BUT , in college or university, even more stress then O' Level or Form 6 (High Education level)........this add exam, assignment and also some of the college or university need student to prepare for the reports, and doing some presentation, this makes more stage to HIGH STRESS, cause sometime each semester assignment of project will be inform just right after the semester's test/exam cause sometime you need to be rush to do your task/work or else your exam will be deducted for the late of your project and if you not prepare will of your exam earlier, this may makes you difficult for you to digest back all what did lecturer told you or your professor, and plus it is also hard to answer all the question during your EXAM.


And for some of the college/ University, need student to present and past the report to your professor or your lecturer,  and if you did't it wrong or not suitable with the title that they give it to you, they will ask you to do it again until it is suit to their own title, that lecturer or your professor teach you to do your presentation and the report , this may cause stress for you ,  cause afraid to answer the question that you deliver to your friend's cause you haven prepare well, and the worse thing is  you need to do again until you do it right and sometimes you need to restart whole semester again, and for the student that almost graduate will need to extend to the next year cause you fail your project and your presentation and plus deduct your marks from your exam cause late submission or haven been submit to your lecturer and for those who fail the exam will be resit until you pass your exam or extend your graduation to another year until you pass all your exam.


So as for my conclusion, is manage our time, prepare yourself earlier & Keep it up even you extend your graduation or extend one semester or fail your exam, keep it up don't feel shame, cause even your friend tread you badly or judge you, cause one they, they have their own weakness one day and keep praying all the time when you study on high school or university or college, beside to avoid from stress keep on you


So don't Give up, this is to train you to become independent one day. Do think of your parent money that earn extremely hard on your studies and grab your goal.....So Grab your opportunity of your future 


May God Bless You!

Teenage Stress

Teenage Stress


For Teenage Stress mostly,  came from family problem ( break up family) & also studies & also exam 


This are the tip's that i can share to you:-


For Family problem:-


It is very hard to deal with family business, for coming exam please do your own part, just study hard until you settle you exam first,then settle your family business. At first is it hard to get them back together, due to some misunderstanding ,and i believe they were asking you  that, don't join adult business,so what we can do is pray for your own god, hope that they will get back, but it is not automatically appear and i took times for them to process as to return their normal life 
For those, who have single parents, or known as single mother or father keep support them of their love and their life as well, don't feel anger & sad, because of their broken relationship, because human sometime need some times to get back together, even Father or your Mother have outsider affair, but one day they will get back together, and keep praying for their coming back  sometimes is good to have two mother or father cause it is fun and can share their difficulties, once you grow up and get married there is your answer cause even you get marriage it is not easy for you to go trough this way...


For Study problem:-


There were certain things that i can share for it:-


Some Parent, send their children for tuition, music class and even piano class, and almost every weekday including weekend is fixed, in this kind of condition in some parts you need to be understand why, your parent send for you for different classes, mostly they want us to be knowledgeable, positive thinking & also showing the good way for your life, if you think that you are to full or to stress of it, you can make your appointment with your family that i need space, and sometimes parent only answer to us no time," I am buzy "and also "why don't you don't pity on your father's money, your father earning hard , as for your future", as for my comment you just obey they cause there have their benefit for us too...and not trying to escape on something i know it is hard for you to understand, but think of your family that support you, as to become a good person one day or bright future so get your goal until you finish your final year secondary school exam. And the rest you will be free from classes. 


So think of their money that earn extremely hard to support you .So don't waste your time to escape from classes and don't ever evil work stay upon you, do good cause satan have plan's to destroy us.....


For sitting for the exam:-


This is some of the tips that, i can share with you:-


I believe this is exam season, have you prepare for your coming exam.......
well for those who still on enjoying your life, it is time for you to study..it is not late to study by now.....and not in last minute..it may effect your health and mind will not concentrate of doing a test......and some of our friend out there having stress and nervous that test is coming soon....and keep praying with your own god..may god show you flying A's in your exam .


For all teenager's keep it up don't give up....cause if you want to win your medal, grab it cause it's your future life..


May God Bless You!  

Child hood Stress

 Childhood  Stress

During our childhood age, parent sometimes, sending us to tuition class , dancing class and even music class, after schooling . almost every single day including weekend, this is because parent doesn't want to let us to go to the wrong way or doing some negative attitude, and us to be honest, good & also need what is their best for their children.And this may cause you stress, but think twice why they want to send us to Different Classes :-


Tuition Class :-

• To build up our knowledge

Dancing Class:-

• Good Social 

Music Class:-

• Learn to be Patient

But, some kids, giving reason  to escape from classes, and going to the wrong way, and one of the reason is Stress, and another word is parent doesn't have time to talk to them, so as for my comment .To all parent do have your time you kids if not it will be hard for you to handle your kids one day going to the wrong way, and  please do have your time with you kids and give his or her time to have a rest, for the children that going to the class daily including Sunday.It is not bad for you to send your kids daily & weekend classes, but think of your kids don't keep them to  stress 

Another stress for kids during his year end of his/her primary school exam, kids may face the stress to cause of the result, and hopefully planning to go to the best school and plus the scholarship, as to be better paid once they went to the best school. So for the student that having tier exam, prepare earlier, catch what did teacher teach you....if not if you study in last minute, it will be hard for you to answer  the question . So study smart, think of your parent hardship to earn the money for your class & study hard.......for the student that exam for you finally year for primary student wish you the best.

May God Bless You