Steps to becoming a successful person

Decide what it is you want in life, take positive actions toward achieving it by setting goals, and monitor the results you are getting  is the best way to become a successful person.

Decide what you want your life to be. You need to know where you want to live, where you will work and in what field you will make your career. 

Being successful in anything requires that you must aim at something desirable and then measure your progress towards achieving such a goal. Sometimes we miss the target but we get up and try again. If it is something you are passionate about you will continue striving until you reach your goal.
Being a successful person really means looking inside yourself and deciding that you are somebody and that you have something to offer. When you are trying to determine whether you are a successful person or not you must understand that the first person who must believe you are a success is yourself.
In an attempt to determine whether I had become a successful person, used the following steps:
1. First I looked at my life and decided that I am a good person and that I have
a lot to offer to other people
2.Secondly I decided the opinion that mattered the most to me was my own. It does not matter much what others think about you but it matters most what most what you think about yourself. I think that I'm a great person 
3. Third I seek to treat other people the way I want to be treated without
expecting them to treat me any different than anyone else.
4. Fourth I decided to love who I am
5. Fifth I decided to always give my best and to be the best in all I do
6. Sixth I decided that everything others said about me is simply their opinion
7. Seventh I decided to live my life one day at a time and to do as much good
and positive in that day that is humanly possible
8. Eight I learn what I can learn, I seek counsel on those things I don't know,
and I strive to know the difference between what I know and don't know 

9. Ninth I don't lie to myself
10. Tenth I evaluate all information I recieve against my mission, goals, and values.
These ten steps have helped me build my self esteem, improve my relationships, and build my knowledge.

Happy New Year

HAPPY NEW YEAR 2011 EVERYONE....

  Congratulation!!! everyone...you have grown one year old .....Stepping toward 2011/ new year......What is your feeling for this year? What is your Plan for this year? What is your wish for this year?

 Well....for those who work...work smarter....then last year...Target what you need to target for this year......For Student those who are sitting for the big exam..study hard and smart and appreciate your time to study....For those who are not  success..do the correction or make it better or refresh our mind once we need to act or to do something.....

Anyway..Keep up you Good work...

Christmas Celebration

MERRY CHRISTMAS EVERYONE !!!


How is  your Christmas celebration ??
* Well it is fun....plus is a government holiday break and schools break
* Sometimes people Sad because of their pass & happy because to excited to celebrate   
   Christmas..
* Happy because they were to excited to get the present.....

Ha..Ha..Ha.....nice to celebrate Christmas.....so if some of you sad just forget the pass.........or some unforgotten of their pass...look forward  and celebrate Christmas is a happy day and not a sad day......and Keep pray to your own god....to help for you......

Merry Christmas & a Happy New Year....

Life of a Coffee

Talking about Coffee, well everyone knows that, it's for drinking, where you drink at home, in coffee shop and even in the restaurant. In another word is us, why is it related to us?well some of use understand, that we are the cup that filled of difficulties or suffering, this is one of an example why we call as coffee of our life ( everyday  we face a lot of difficulties in schools, home & in the company) and this represent everyday we drink a coffee without adding sugar.


 And once we add sugar & cream, First of all what do you know about sugar & cream, well is for adding to the coffee to be sweet & creamy, plus sugar & sweet is also means to our life which is difficulties and change to medium way such as time management, for example working , sometimes our work would be screwing up and a lot documentation and paper work need to be done so think of what is urgent and not urgent, and with the time management we would finish our task smoothly and not careless doing our work. And another thing is keep on praying for our own work  and the most important thing is focus on doing every job or everything, and don't think of failure cause there is a chances of success to do our work and don't give up..on doing our work.


  And that's is all our the life of my coffee and also it is related to me. And if it is related to you do write info about coffee or other type of food or drink that are related on yourself give us your comment on it and lets share together....

Financial Stress

Nowadays, our world facing of instabilities of the economy, the bank and the stock market are causing quite a bit of anxiety with many people.And that is why many people reeling of High Gas price, High Petrol Price, instability in the job market, it seems like there is no shortage of stressors to contribute to the our daily stress lives today.


      One thing that makes large scale stressors like this situation especially difficult,  something that distinguishes them from the smaller scale stressors of annoying colleague, bickering kids or to busy to do list, that many people feel that they have little control here. These are major changes where individual may feel that they have little power to altar their own fate.


  For those who face financial trouble or other challenges in our life. This are some method that may help you:-

• A better way, is be smart on using money, buy fewer things that you don't need, get out of debt, and spend money on things that you don't need , 
•  Cut down with spending
• Be smart on Spending your Money/ Used your Money Wisely.

Any comment or ideal need to talk about money, do send comment to me & May God Bless You!

Working Stress

     After Graduation your college/ university, Congratulation that you get your Graduation Hat, & Congratulation, to you again, cause you have train yourself to be independent,  but as for your info your life still haven over yet, you have the next step is your real life of becoming an adult, NOT a children anymore, NO need teacher to teach you, NO need parent to guide, NOW, you yourself, sacrifice with your family cause they, have sacrificial you for almost 20 years.


During, your work, you will face more stress , or more challenging; then college/university; 


What You may face Stress in Workplace:-

• Facing With your Boss/Manager
• Facing With your Colleague
• Facing with your work

Facing with your Manager and Boss:-

What will make your stress with Boss/Manager 

• Mostly all your project or your task need to approve by Manager, before you can start to perform your task or prepare to do your product/ your creation, because sometime if they change their mind you need to redo/ recreate all your product or your task, cause need the approved by the Boss/ Manager, and to show your product/ your task to your Manager/ Boss.
• And some of you, need to face, your manager or boss , especially, once they unhappy of your product or task,Oh...O....you will meet lion face...
• This may make you not confident and perform your task/ product and plus your STRESS, on how to proceed your product/ task. 

Facing Stress with your colleague

What Makes you Stress with your Colleague?

• No cooperation / teamwork with you until you fail to do your product/ your task and also meet with manager. 

Facing Stress with your work?

• Facing with boss/manager
• Facing with no teamwork with your colleague.
• Facing to much work/product to be solve.   

As for my conclusion with Working Stress is:-

• For the work is hard, do it first, then the rest that is not urgent do it later.
• If no cooperation with the colleague..maybe you can find your manager to solve it together don't be afraid to ask, and so ask for your job/your product if the worker's/colleague not cooperate with you.  

Or

• Find some information from the internet to search, that suit for your product/ your work. 
• Manage your time, don't screw up your job/ your product.
• Not work hard but work smart.
• Arrange your time to have a rest or a vacation or relax at the beach and have time with friend/your family.
• If success ,do, until you leave your company, not because of "Good", "Excellent", "Impressive" or good comment from manager keep it up...
• If fail, don't give up, do it again, cause you have the chances, with the good comment from your manager.
• Keep praying daily....for success on your work or any difficulties .

May God Bless You!...

   

Independent Period & Stress

Yesterday, we talk about teenage stress and today well i will include some teenage , but more to independent Period + Stress.

What do you know about independent Period?

. Means you have finish your final year and towards high school level/university and college and even starting small business (for the people who fail the exam) 

. Another word is the process to become adult.

. It also known as our practical of becoming adult .

. Do it by yourself/ work by yourself.

To all teenage, congratulation you have past trough your secondary year ....and congratulation for some you get Flying A's in your exam .And for some fail or not getting flying color in your exam don't give up cause you can also start you small business.

Have you prepare you big challenge and stress in your New Environment/New Place...for futher studies or working?

Well here is some challenge and stress for you:-

For High School Level (Form 6/O Level)

- Sitting for STPM is the big challenge for you cause if you miss the goal, it will make you   difficult to go for further study, and some people say waste your money to study STPM, 

For those who sit for this high school education level, be prepare and treat this like a game but, be serious cause you are dealing with huge matter, that hide behind this education, there were two type of things may happen on you, One is trap and also winning. 
During the normal exam if you fail you still can stand up, don't give up hope and not until the last minute you before your Big Exam, during that time stress occur on us not even an exam, even we do homework because of difficulties on answering the question & also project  , sometime answering, think will be easy but.......not as easy as we think off and also exam.....sometimes difficult question manage to get it right but, sometimes an easy & simple question never get's the answer right, and this may make us give up sometimes..they might be stop and won't be continue their study.


COLLEGE UNIVERSITIES STRESS

This is one of the major stress in High School,  BUT , in college or university, even more stress then O' Level or Form 6 (High Education level)........this add exam, assignment and also some of the college or university need student to prepare for the reports, and doing some presentation, this makes more stage to HIGH STRESS, cause sometime each semester assignment of project will be inform just right after the semester's test/exam cause sometime you need to be rush to do your task/work or else your exam will be deducted for the late of your project and if you not prepare will of your exam earlier, this may makes you difficult for you to digest back all what did lecturer told you or your professor, and plus it is also hard to answer all the question during your EXAM.


And for some of the college/ University, need student to present and past the report to your professor or your lecturer,  and if you did't it wrong or not suitable with the title that they give it to you, they will ask you to do it again until it is suit to their own title, that lecturer or your professor teach you to do your presentation and the report , this may cause stress for you ,  cause afraid to answer the question that you deliver to your friend's cause you haven prepare well, and the worse thing is  you need to do again until you do it right and sometimes you need to restart whole semester again, and for the student that almost graduate will need to extend to the next year cause you fail your project and your presentation and plus deduct your marks from your exam cause late submission or haven been submit to your lecturer and for those who fail the exam will be resit until you pass your exam or extend your graduation to another year until you pass all your exam.


So as for my conclusion, is manage our time, prepare yourself earlier & Keep it up even you extend your graduation or extend one semester or fail your exam, keep it up don't feel shame, cause even your friend tread you badly or judge you, cause one they, they have their own weakness one day and keep praying all the time when you study on high school or university or college, beside to avoid from stress keep on you


So don't Give up, this is to train you to become independent one day. Do think of your parent money that earn extremely hard on your studies and grab your goal.....So Grab your opportunity of your future 


May God Bless You!